Creating a positive Social Media Experience often starts with you or your business. In my last article I asked Will Social Media Get Me More Customers?.
The answers lays within you. This is not about a ego trip, but what you can bring to the table. I love how Chris Brogan – chrisbrogan.com and Julian Smith – in over your head create the scenarios in Trust Agents.
Be a game player – bring with you all your perks to the table – and earn your customers trust.
And with Social Media 101: Tactics and Tips to Develop Your Business Online Chris Brogan throw Social Media Marketing in front of you. This is a real handy book, especially when it comes from one that defines himself as ‘not a marketing kind of guy’.
1. You shall believe you are unique
Learn to like yourself the way you are.
Learn to understand that if there something you can’t do, this don’t mean you can’t learn it.
We can learn what we want. We have to be motivated, adapt the knowledge, prioritize and set off enough time to learn it.
2. You are worth more then you believe
There are no two humans with the same finger print or same brain.
You can produce therefor you are valuable. You have talent. It can be a thought or an idea. Do something about it.
3. You have the ability to learn everything
You just has to learn that everything can’t be learned in just one week. Training and priorities is what will get you towards your goals.
Keep trying until you find the solution that works for you. Learn what defines ‘good enough for a satisfying results’ in your case.
4. You are better then many
Always write down your thoughts or ideas. Don’t take the chance that you will remember them tomorrow.
Don’t see the obstacles in your ideas, but focus on the opportunities. Think about this; for every obstacles there is at least two – three solutions.
5. You know a lot that others don’t
You have experience that others don’t.
You have learned an occupation, you have an hobby or interest, so you know something others don’t – Use It!
6. You have lot to be proud over
You have solved an assignment where you showed your positive abilities.
You kids that you are proud of.
You have an hobby you are proud of.
You can smile to others.
You can give positive feedback.
You are a giver.
7. You are capable of everything
No one is born to be a good athlete, doctor, nurse, dentist, blogger, speaker, mechanic, programmer, artist, journalist… etc…
It all comes from being motivated, adapt the knowledge, prioritize and set off enough time to learn it.
We can hardly learn everything, so you have to make some priorities. Be patient don’t get discouraged the first couple of weeks.
And don’t start out compare yourself with the best. Then you will have to set of a lot of time and patience.
Again define what’s ‘good enough for a satisfying results’ in your case.
8. You shall smile to us
You shall laugh and smile to others, this is very motivating.
9. You know someone care about you
You shall always give positive feedback and comments to others. And visa versa accept receiving positive feedback and comments from others.
10. You have knowledge you can learn away
You have unique knowledge and abilities that you can learn away to others.
You have at least three things you know that you know more about then others do! Don’t limit yourself.
When you start define your goals – start ask yourself ‘Which obstacles exists in reach my goal?’
After defined the obstacles ask ‘What can I do to overcome the obstacles?’. For every obstacles you shall find two – three solutions
What Have You Done To Create A Positive Social Media Experience for your business?
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I hope you enjoyed this article! Comments is encouraged and welcome!
Your friend,
Are Morch
@TwtrCoach













Nice article Are, this is quite encouraging and I love the thought of someone being worth more than anyone . The other thing is success comes takes some time to come so give your best every time no matter what others think about you.
Thanks for your kind comments.
All these are principles I followed since back in the late 80's. Really great to see how current they still are, and how you can adapt them to your Social Media approach.
I will work on some extensions from #10 which basically is about mind mapping. Mind mapping and creating a Social Media toolbox really goes hand in hand.
Yeah I agree to give your best every time no matter what others think about you. There are so many great people out there that has really gone above and beyond their adversities.
Cheers.. Are
That is why I think bloggers/entrepreneurs/marketers are all in need of a positive attitude. Self awareness and improvements are both essential but pity that many of us have started without getting to know ourselves better first. Always go back to the basics, learn who we are. Only then we can maximize our full potentials for whatever obstacles or plans that are ahead of us.
@wchingya
Social/Blogging Tracker
So true Ching Ya..
My points is that to many use way to much time focus on finding the key to success… They don't take time to see that the door to success has been open all the time.. The big clue is that you have to open the door from the inside
Cheers.. Are